Enslaved Desire BDSM and Bondage Guides:
Basic Guide to Bondage Toys
Just getting stared and not sure what you need? Here is a basic guide to fill your dungeon or sex toy bag. And don't forget to check out our bondage sets for a quick start on your gear!
The Bare Basics
These are pretty much essential equipment for beginning to experiment with BDSM. Generally, these are all low cost items to give you and your partner a chance to see if BDSM really is something you want to explore further before making a major investment in bondage gear.
- Collars & Leashes - Keep your pet in line with a collar for sex play, or even a public collar for every day wear. Putting on a collar is a great way to begin a scene litterally putting you in control. We have collars that are designed for punishment or for use with a leash as well as beautiful public collars that can pass as a necklace during the day.
- Wrist & Ankle Restraints - cuffs, rope and ties to keep hands and feet out of the action and out of the way giving your submissive a true feeling of your control. Cuffs are great for comfortable wear and are generally easier to use than rope for beginners.
- Blindfolds - By removing sight from the equation, you can take your physical experience to the next level. Keep them guessing what you plan to do and heighten their arousal. We have simple sleep-mask style blindfolds to much more extreme head harnesses and everything in between.
- Gags - Another step to removing control, ball gags are nearly iconic with BDSM. Gags can be simple strips of cloth or large devices intended to keep your submissives mouth open and ready for anything you want to do.
- Spanking Paddles - Want to explore punishing your submissive? We recommend paddles over whips or crops for beginners as they are easier to control and avoid accidentally injuring you or your sub. We have both light paddles and more severe wood or leather ones for a truly stunning thud!
- Cock Cages - For male submissives, confining his little head can be a great way to start controlling him. Cock cages are the perfect way to get started from a simple gates of hell to a male chastity device.
- Vibrators - For female submissives, vibrators can be a great fun basic driving her nearly to the edge of orgasm, then stopping or introducing a light pain such as nipple twist or spanking is intoxicating.
Basic Plus
Once you have decided BDSM is something you want to explore more, these are the next toys to consider adding to your toy bag.
- Hoods and Muzzles - Remove sight, restrict air or just create an erotic look with our wide variety of hoods and muzzles. Some have mouth access for oral or others provide complete black-out experiences not available from traditional blindfolds. Very popular for people experimenting with breath play - like all toys, use with caution, especially on those suffering from asthma or other conditions.
- Nipple Clips and Clamps - A little bit of pain or pressure on the sensitive nipples can drive anyone over the edge!
- Whips & Crops - Playing with pain and sensation with your sub can be very erotic for you both. Always practice with any whip or crop though making sure you can control where it lands and the force you use behind it. Even the lightest tap can be extremely stimulating when delivered at the right time. Crops are the easiest to control for beginners.
- Spreader Bars - Wood or usually metal spreader bars are designed to keep arms or legs in an open, spread position for easy access. They can also restrict walking and generally imbolize your submissive in a variety of ways. They are usually used in combination with cuffs and some come with cuffs.
- Armbinders - Graduating to more extreme bondage, armbinders keep arms totally immobile better using full-length arm binders for a much greater sense of restriction. They usually totally encase the hands as well.
- Sleepsacks - experience the security and erotic feel of having your entire body bound up with a sleep sack or body bag. So restrictive, always be careful when using it that your submissive does not panic due to the severe restriction.
- Anal Sex Toys - Anal sex still has a bit of a taboo about it even though it is enjoyable for many. Anal probes and butt plugs can be a great next step in your bondage play. S
Advanced Bondage Toys
Ready to move on and expand your toy bag? Here are some things to thinka bout adding to your dungeon.
- Electosex Toys - These toys are designed to heighten stimulation by using an electrical current. Always be sure to read instructions that come with your toy and follow the warnings they carry for safe play.
- Restraint Systems - Restraint systems expand your bondage possibilities with over the door, around the bed and other options to get creative.
- Suspension Equipment - create a more intense experience by taking your partner a little bit or totally off the floor! From slings and swings to suspension bars, there is a huge variety of what you can do once you take it off the floor.
- Straitjackets - created to be nearly impossible to get out of, a straitjacket can be a frustrating and exciting addition to your toy collection. They create a more extreme restriction for your submissive, yet are not so uncomfortable they cannot be used for long-term wear.
- Medical Toys - play doctor and take your bondage scene to the next level from prickly wheels to urethral sounds and speculums. Make sure to check out our medical toys to get your scene down to the details.
- Strap-Ons - Taking control by using a strap on style dildo can be a great way to show your dominance over your partner - not be mention being great fun!
However you choose to play, be sure to keep it safe, sane and consensual!
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