How to Find the Male G Spot Diagram & Info
To find a man's g-spot, you need to go thru the anus. Easiest way to locate it for the first time is using a gloved finger with lots of lube. With your man laying on his back, legs elevated, insert a finger slowly into his anus. Push gently straight in. If he has never tried anal play, the sphincter muscle will be very tight at first so take your time. When your finger is up to about the knuckle, you should feel a small bump under your finger thru the anal wall. It is about the size of a chestnut about 2 inches inside the anus. Now that you've found the male g-spot, it's time to play!
Just like with the woman's g-spot, stimulating the male g spot can greatly enhance orgasms, so don't be afraid to give some things a try.
A finger is the simplest way to stimulate the g-spot of course. Some men enjoy rubbing or vibrating, others thrusting against it, and some like a combination of both. Take your time and try out a few things to see what you really like the most.
Other things to try are prostate wands that especially designed to stimulate the male g spot and are often a vibrator with a long handle to make it easier when using on yourself or something else. Butt Plugs are designed to stay in place for longer periods of time and to operate hands free. Don't be surprised if massaging his g-spot creates an orgasm and you will probably notice cum seeping from his penis - this is totally normal and is known in the Femdom community as milking - empyting the testicles of sperm while denying a full orgasm.
Milking the Prostate Gland
Milking involves the slow, steady stimulation of the prostate gland often with the help of a prostate massage wand which allows cum to ooze from the penis without orgasm. Practiced often within Femdom to control the male orgasm, milking helps maintain the health of the balls without the full release of an orgasm.The easiest way to milk the male prostate is from behind with the man on hands and knees or bent over a bed or bondage bench. The Femdom slowly works the prostate massager (with lube of course) into his ass until she finds the prostate and steadily penetrates in and out stimulating it with mild pressure. Within a few moments, milking cum with drip out of his penis. Continue until the stream of cum slows or stops (catch it within a glass if you would like making him drink it later for extra fun). Firmly stroke the underside of his penis from root to head to clear all cum from the urethra.
Milking is suggested to be done weekly for as long as you are denying your submissive a "standard" orgasm, though this will of course vary sub by sub. Some natually produce more cum than others so you may find you need to milk him more or less to keep everything under control.